Ausbildung und heiraten
Hello, I wish you all Christmas and happy new year.
lately I was really thinking to end my life, but because I love my girlfriend so much and my dog, I stand up again and think how I can fix my problem to have a normal life with my family.
I am Egyptian I run from my country because the dictator government and politic and the discriminating community, including my Egyptian family.
I came to Germany and apply regarding the mandatory army duty and because I don’t have they don’t accept this in Egyptian and so bad that I have fear to live there, but after one year the BAMF reject my request I went to lawyer and he make objection.
now I’m facing some problems:
I was in Speyer then they transferred me to Bad Kreuznach, the immigration office there is so racist and so difficult to talk with, and they always say we will bring you back to your country. Nothing else no chance to work no chance to study no chance to marry.
I already got accepted in university but they take my semester ticket from me and email the university that I’m not allowed to study there. I transfer to but they did not accept because it’s outside of the Bundesland (Rheinland to Niedersachsen).
Me and my girlfriend plan to marry but the standesamt didn’t accept my expired passport which I gave to the BAMF and I can’t make new one regarding the mandatory army deuty.
Now I exam B1 level and got the Anerkennung from ZAB for my Bachelor and applied for Ausbildung als Pflegefachmann and got accepted but in Hamburg because I would like to be near to my girlfriend and her family as I consider them really my family, but I’m scared that the immigration office will say “no you cannot do it. You cannot transfer, and you cannot do Ausbildung because the BAMF rejected your request and we have your passport and Egypt is safe country so we will bring you back” as they already said that to me many times. I asked the helping centers in Bad Kreuznach but no body gave me complete answers, also the lawyer is so busy and can not gave me extra answers for what I can do,
Would you help me with complete details how I can stay with my girlfriend in germany without being always under the pressure that one day they are going to bring me back to Egypt.
also how can we marry with my expired passport, and how can I transfer to live with my girlfriend city or near by city, I would do any solution for that, just please show me the way. thank you so much ❤️
Reply (2)
Hello @Maro
sorry to hear what you are going through. You can check out our mental health section for further support: https://handbookgermany.de/en/mental-health
Regarding your question about moving to another state and starting vocational training, our colleagues from @LIFE Initiative initiative will send you more information.
Kind regards
Daniela
Hi @Maro , thank you for your inquiry. I'm sorry to hear about your difficult situation. These answers are provisional, as we do not know your exact situation and cannot give legal advice.
If your Bachelor's degree is recognised in Germany, you may have the opportunity to apply for a ‘track change’: You can find some general Information regarding the "track change" ("Spurwechsel") here: https://handbookgermany.de/en/changing-residence-title#faq_3329. Here you can find information on the conditions under which you can apply for a "track change" ("Spurwechsel"): https://handbookgermany.de/en/changing-residence-title#faq_3330. For a "track change" ("Spurwechsel") you must withdraw your asylum application, which is associated with many uncertainties. You should carefully check whether this is the right way to go. It is best to seek support from a counselling centre for migrants or a lawyer as soon as possible.
The question of whether you can move to another federal state as an asylum seeker is not easy to answer. It varies from state to state and depends on many different factors (see: https://life-initiative.org/hgt-aufenthaltsgestattung-12-2024-en) /and https://handbookgermany.de/en/refugee-accommodation#faq_3003). You may be able to submit an application for relocation due to work to the immigration office. We have no information about your chances of having your application approved.
In Germany you can only get married with a valid passport. You also need a certificate of no impediment to marriage ("Ehefähigkeitszeugnis") if you have foreign citizenship. You usually have to apply for this form at the relevant authority in the home country or from the relevant embassy. You can apply for an exemption from the certificate of no impediment to marriage ("Ehefähigkeitszeugnis") in court.
We recommend visiting a migration advice center or a lawyer.
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I hope this information is helpful for you and you had a merry christmas!
Kind regards,
Franziska