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Hello everyone, thank you for let me expressing my feelings, I‘m in the last step before ending my life as this is the only thing I could decide for my self, I love my girlfriend the Standesamt refuse to proses our marriage because my passport expired and I can’t have a new one because my problem in my country, I tried to study and I got enrollment but the immigration office refused to allow me to go to the city of the university, I tried to work I have recognition from ZAB bachelor in Management Information systems but the immigration office said no we will not allow you to do anything if you want to get married or working or studying go back to your country and come with the correct visa, and the BAMF rejected my case because they don’t consider running form the mandatory military duty is dangerous enough as also I don’t have religion in country that doesn’t allow this, can someone convince me how I can continue living in world believing only in papers one paper can make me live normal life and another can make my life like hell one paper can allow me to be family with my love, can someone explain to me how I can live more since they are taking everything from me?! treating me as peace of…. I came to germany to find peace life unfortunately I came out from cadge to another.

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Yara_Community Manger

Hello @ROmar ,

It is brave and admirable that you are seeking support here, thank you for writing this post. I am sorry that you have experienced this horrible treatment from the German immigration office and BAMF and that this has been so bad that you want to end your life. 
But I can also read that you are looking for someone that can convince you to continue living in this world. I can try and support you and maybe this will allow you to have some more hope for your life to continue with your girlfriend. There are also many support centers that could help you.
It could be idea to speak to a professional just to ease your mind a little and help you with your mental health in the short term. https://handbookgermany.de/en/mental-health#faq_2752 
We link to help that is also in English, such as IPSO Care. Maybe you already have talked to someone. 


If you want, I can also ask our experts for more information. To better understand your situation and also help you, I would need to know where in Germany are you based and what your current residency is. As you mentioned that the BAMF has rejected your asylum case. 
Depending on how the BAMF rejected your asylum procedure you have some time to go against this legally. Do you have a migration lawyer that is helping you? Otherwise, I can provide a list of lawyers to which you can reach out to. 
 

Just remember there are many people out there wanting to help you face the difficult and cold bureaucratic system. 
I will also open a private message if you want to continue writing there. 
Best wishes 

Yara

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